Conversing with a stranger has the power to uplift both their spirit and yours.
This month’s topic has shifted numerous times in my mind.
During my daily morning walks, I often find inspiration for what to write.
However, sitting at my computer and putting my thoughts down on paper, I struggled to evoke a positive emotion.
Eventually, everything came together nicely- it seems the universe worked its magic.
The other day, I was strolling along, feeling relaxed and enjoying the warmth of the sun on my back. People were passing by—walking, running, and walking their dogs.
I often have brief, pleasant chats with fellow walkers. Nothing too deep, but always sweet interactions.
On this particular morning, I encountered a lovely elderly couple-the lady walking her dog while the gentleman was a few steps ahead of her. Our eyes met, and a smile followed, along with a cheerful “good morning”.
A few minutes into our chat, I introduced myself, and they introduced themselves in turn. The conversation flowed from one topic to another. The gentleman’s focus shifted frequently. This did not bother me at all; however, his lovely wife felt a little uneasy and came close to me, explaining he has early-onset dementia.
I smiled with empathy and said, “I am enjoying the conversation with him.” I could see a sign of relief on her face, and I felt a deep connection emerge.
When the gentleman wandered over to another elderly man to chat, his wife expressed her discomfort, saying, “Oh no, I don’t know what he is talking about” I reassured her that he seemed to be enjoying himself, and the other man appeared keen to listen. As we watched from a distance, they were laughing and clearly felt comfortable in each other’s company.
I had a conversation with the woman about dementia and its impact- not only on those diagnosed but also on their entire families. She shared how her loved one’s behaviour has changed, making simple daily activities increasingly challenging. I expressed my sympathy for her situation, acknowledging how difficult it must be for her to care for him.
It is admirable that she continues to keep both him and herself active.
Just before we went our separate ways, the lady looked at me and thanked me. I replied that it was my pleasure and that I was happy to meet her and her husband. I was left with a warm feeling.
Take The Time And Have A Chat
I was glad that I took the time to talk, even if it was just for a few minutes. I realised that what may seem like a small moment to us could truly make someone’s day.
Do you remember being told as a child to never speak to strangers?
As I continued my walk, I reflected on the lesson many of us learned as children: not to talk to strangers. While this advice was appropriate when we were children, I began to wonder how many people carry this belief into adulthood.
Is the concept of “stranger danger” still ingrained in us?
Today, I decided to go for an afternoon walk instead of my usual morning routine. Occasionally, I feel the urge to switch things up and take a walk in the afternoon. You never know what you might discover.
During my walk today, I came across my two elderly friends and their dog. The lady approached me and hugged me warmly, while her husband smiled and expressed his love for Parramatta.
We were both happy to see each other. I mentioned that I typically walk in the morning, and she replied that she typically walks in the morning as well, but had something else scheduled for that morning. It seemed like it was meant for us to meet again.
The two meetings had a significant impact on me, inspiring me to write about my encounters and how they uplifted my spirit as well as theirs.
Set Aside Childhood Beliefs That Made You Hesitant to Talk To Strangers
I hope that after reading the newsletter, you’ll feel encouraged to set aside any childhood beliefs that made you hesitant to talk to strangers and take the brave step to say hello to someone.
If you are an adult with children or have children in your care, it is important to teach them about caution when engaging with strangers. They should only engage with someone if they feel safe and comfortable in doing so or when an adult is present.
I hope you enjoyed reading the article. As always, feel free to share it.
I am always happy to receive your comments and thoughts.
Have a wonderful month.
Warm Regards,
Christine
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